The title is your warning. This is an "all about the nitty gritty" post, turn away now if you don't want to read about it!
So I was having some drinks with the girls the other night and the conversation turned to sex, as it often will. Specifically, it turned to oral sex. You do it, you don't. You spit, you swallow. You expect it, you don't. It was a very "Sex and the City" conversation.
Not to divulge everyone's preferences but I was not in the majority when I disclosed that I generally swallow. I don't think it's disgusting. It's less of a mess to clean up, and I don't do it that often because oral is usually just a warm up for us. I prefer having him inside of me.
In the same respect I was the only one who didn't mind kissing after he'd given it to me! That baffled me.
I don't have a lot of hang-ups about oral sex. I enjoy both giving and receiving. I don't find anything about it dirty or gross. In fact I wish I could do away with my gag reflex because it holds me back some. I don't have hang-ups about receiving it either.
All that and I was the only one not having sex on my period. Really?!
So obviously we all have different opinions and hang-ups. What are some of yours? What is your relationship with oral sex? If you are a girl, do you have sex on your period? Do you have any other hang-ups about sex?