I was over on the VIB site and saw this Newsflash: Kids Can Ruin Your Sex Life, Study Says
Really you needed a study to confirm what every Mom in the world already knows. For the first year all they do is eat, poop and sleep and some times, they do two of those things at the same time. You're gross, tired, and just waiting to see which end makes a mess first. Seriously who wants to think about sex? Usually your concern is sleep, you get some one to watch the
Ok having kids will really only put a hiccup in your love life, really. If you put some work into it, it doesn't have to be wrecked. Look at me two munchkins under 10 and I have a very satisfying sex life. We make it work. Even if that means putting on a movie and sneaking to the bedroom while the kidlets watch said movie alone.
I found it to be a DUH moment though when the article said the 91% of working women said their sex life was wrecked. Well um yeah work 8hrs come home to deal with kids, husband or SO, and life you're not going to want to have sex. Been there done that rather not do it again Thank you. The article also talks about "Empty Nest Sex" which totally makes sense of course older women are going to be having more sex, gotta make up for lost time. Yet with so many older women ready to explore their sexuality, now that they don't have kids to worry about, it's not surprising we're in a new age of Cougars and MILFs.
Any way what do you think do kids really ruin your sex life, or just put a hiccup in it? And did they really need a study to tell us?